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Oprah Winfrey is not married, despite being in a committed relationship with Stedman Graham for nearly four decades. The media mogul and her longtime partner have chosen what they call a “spiritual partnership” over traditional marriage, believing their unconventional approach has been key to their enduring bond.
The couple first met at a charity event in Chicago in 1986, the same year The Oprah Winfrey Show premiered. What began as a cautious friendship eventually blossomed into one of the most enduring relationships in the entertainment industry. While they were briefly engaged in the early 1990s, Winfrey and Graham ultimately decided that marriage wasn’t the right path for them.
Their relationship has weathered nearly four decades of intense public scrutiny, with Winfrey’s rise to becoming one of the world’s most influential media personalities. Throughout this journey, Graham has maintained his own successful career as an entrepreneur, educator, and author, while supporting Winfrey’s unprecedented achievements. Their partnership challenges conventional notions of commitment, proving that love and dedication don’t always require a marriage certificate.
The decision to remain unmarried wasn’t made lightly. Winfrey has been refreshingly honest about her reasons, explaining that she realized she “didn’t actually want a marriage” but rather “wanted to be asked”. This candid admission reveals the complexity of their relationship and the thoughtful consideration that has gone into their life choices. Their story offers a fascinating look into how two successful individuals can build a lasting partnership while maintaining their individual identities and pursuing their separate ambitions.
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Who is Stedman Graham?
Stedman Graham is far more than just “Oprah’s partner.” The 73-year-old is a multifaceted businessman, educator, and author who has built an impressive career independent of his famous girlfriend. Graham serves as chairman and CEO of S. Graham and Associates, a Chicago-based corporate and educational marketing consulting firm he founded in 1988.
As an accomplished author, Graham has written 12 books focusing on leadership and personal development. His expertise in identity leadership has taken him around the globe, speaking in countries including the Netherlands, Germany, China, Canada, the UK, Bermuda, and South Africa. Before his business success, Graham served in the U.S. Army and worked as a prison guard in Colorado.
Graham is also the founder of AAD, formerly Athletes Against Drugs, a Chicago-based non-profit organization that provides scholarships and support to underserved youth. His philanthropic efforts extend to speaking engagements at correctional facilities, demonstrating his commitment to making a positive impact on society.
From his previous marriage to Glenda Graham from 1974 to 1980, he has a daughter named Wendy Nicole Graham, born in 1975. Wendy married engineer Bradley Kerwin Greene in 2015. Graham’s role as a father and grandfather adds another dimension to his multifaceted life.
The Beginning of Their Love Story
The romance between Oprah and Stedman began in 1986 when they met at a charity event in Chicago. Initially, Winfrey wasn’t particularly impressed with Graham, despite his striking 6’6″ frame and handsome appearance. In fact, she thought he was “too handsome” to be interested in her.
Winfrey had noticed Graham around town before their official meeting, but he was always with the same girlfriend. Their paths crossed meaningfully when they both visited a mutual friend who was ill and later died of AIDS. After leaving together, Winfrey asked Graham if he wanted to get a beer, though he declined as he doesn’t drink alcohol.
The relationship developed slowly and cautiously. Winfrey proceeded with care, even in friendship, until she learned months later that Graham had broken up with his girlfriend and had been inquiring about her dating status. This revelation gave her the confidence to give him “serious thought”.
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Their relationship became public in December 1986 when they attended the premiere of Winfrey’s film Native Son together at the Apollo Theatre in New York City. The relationship was further solidified in the public eye when Graham made a sweet cameo on The Oprah Winfrey Show in 1987, calling in to ask what Winfrey had been saying about him to her best friend, Gayle King.
Why They Never Married
Despite their decades-long commitment, Winfrey and Graham have never married, though they were briefly engaged in 1992. The engagement lasted only about a year before they called it off, but not due to relationship problems.
Winfrey has been remarkably candid about her decision. In a 2020 essay, she explained: “I realized I didn’t actually want a marriage. I wanted to be asked. I wanted to know he felt I was worthy of being his missus, but I didn’t want the sacrifices, the compromises, the day-in-day-out commitment required to make a marriage work. My life with the show was my priority, and we both knew it”.
The couple believes their decision not to marry has actually strengthened their relationship. As Winfrey wrote in Oprah Daily: “He and I agree that had we tied the marital knot, we would not still be together”. Their relationship works because Graham has created an identity beyond being “Oprah’s man,” and they share fundamental values, with integrity being their top priority.
Graham echoed this sentiment during a 2019 appearance on The Ellen DeGeneres Show, explaining: “I’m dedicated to her happiness, so that’s great for her and I want her to be the best she can possibly be and she’s done a pretty good job of doing that. And so for me, I’ve been able to find my own happiness, my own skills, my own talents, my own abilities, and I’m satisfied with that”.
Their “Spiritual Partnership”
Winfrey describes their relationship as a “spiritual partnership,” which she defines using Gary Zukav’s concept as “a partnership between equals for the purpose of spiritual growth”. This unconventional approach to commitment has allowed both partners to flourish individually while supporting each other’s growth and success.
The foundation of their partnership rests on mutual respect, shared values, and the freedom to pursue individual goals. Winfrey has praised Graham’s steadiness, describing him as “steady as a mountain. Even-tempered, accountable, trustworthy, patient”. This stability has provided a crucial anchor for Winfrey throughout her demanding career.
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Their relationship dynamic allows them to “relish seeing the other fulfill and manifest their destiny and purpose”. This philosophy has enabled Winfrey to build her media empire while Graham has developed his own successful career and global influence in leadership development.
Life Without Children
The couple never had children together, though Graham has a daughter from his previous marriage. Winfrey has been open about her decision not to have children, explaining that the “depth of responsibility and sacrifice that is actually required to be a mother” was incompatible with her career demands.
Rather than expressing regret, Winfrey has found fulfillment through her work with the Oprah Winfrey Leadership Academy for Girls in South Africa. She told People magazine: “I have not had one regret about that. I also believe that part of the reason why I don’t have regrets is because I got to fulfill it in the way that was best for me: the Oprah Winfrey Leadership Academy for Girls in South Africa. Those girls fill that maternal fold that I perhaps would have had”.
The Secret to Their Success
After nearly four decades together, Winfrey and Graham’s relationship continues to thrive. Their success stems from maintaining individual identities while supporting each other’s dreams. They’ve avoided the pitfalls that often plague celebrity relationships by keeping their partnership private and focusing on personal growth rather than public validation.
Their story demonstrates that commitment doesn’t always require traditional structures. By choosing a path that works for them rather than conforming to societal expectations, they’ve created a lasting partnership that has weathered the pressures of fame, fortune, and time.
